Begawi Traditional Wedding Cases OverWhelmed The Bride and Groom.Once upon time there is a wedding custom in lampung,the name from the custom is begawi. Almost every future bride and groom cancelled to wedding because this custom,what it can happend? Read this and you will understanding why this custom make wedding cancelled.In east Lampung there is a man and a woman,their name is Dodi and Dara. When dodi think his age is enough to marriage he decide to do that.he find a good woman from lampung,as it happend their ages are almost same just different 3 month. Their make special relation until get to know each other.And until both of them get serious each other come another man, name of this man is rendra,And make dara shock because dara is doesn’t know this man,turns out he is a friend of her own boyfriend. Dendra go straight to dara’s parents, make agreements,and talk about the future like buying ahouse,weddin customs and a lot. In this situation dara’s parents are agree with dendra,while dara doesn’t like dendra and doesn’t even think about has future with dendra. And here dara tell dodi about dendra. Dodi very angry and disappointed because he doesn’t think his best friend will do that.Until come the right time,dodi come to dara’s house to meet dara’s parents,and talk seriously with dara’s parents about his plan to married with dara, and dara’s parents are shocked especially his father have heart disease. Not long after that salwa’s father fell and was immediately taken to the hospital, and made all of dodi’s plans messy and hampered. When Dara’s father was in the hospital, Dara’s mother wanted to hasten his plans to marry Rendra and Dara, and Dara had another plan, which was to run away from home and live with Dodi so that her parents would agree even if they had to, dara’s mother cried when she found out that Dara had run away to live with Dodi, while Dodi was just an unemployed man who only relied on affection, Dodi did not think that when he got married, he had to be responsible for Dara and her child. after a month passed, dara demanded dodi to marry dara because dara was pregnant before marriage, and dodi was silent when dara demanded dodi to marry her, dara actually wanted to go home but she felt ashamed of her parents. when dara was 8 months pregnant dara decided to go home his parent’s house and suddenly Dara’s father was shocked and had a sudden heart attack which caused him to die at that moment. In such circumstances dodi was silent, more precisely, he was confused about what to do because he could not pay for the hospital fees, when the business regarding the death of dara’s father was finished, dodi planned to marry dara.Because dara is the daughter in the family, in Lampung custom the way to appreciate or how to know the value of the child in the family is to demand the husband to marry using the begawi custom.Begawi custom is one of the very long traditional wedding ceremonies, which is to hold a wedding party for 7 days and 7 days and have to cut at least 3 buffalo, it will definitely cost a lot of money. While Dodi is an unemployed person. Because the plans from the family are very burdensome for dodi’s family,dodi decided to step down and not marry dara.This time dara really felt very down and felt her future was destroyed because dara had to have a child without a father, dara had lost her father.when dara’s pregnancy entered the age of 9 months, dendra came with good intentions, he wanted to marry dara and accept the child he was carrying sincerely. and also feeling happy because she will definitely feel loved by a man who is responsible for her future.
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